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eritreaqqq: hello..nice to meet you
Marie Calda: hi nice meeting you
Marie Calda: how are you?
eritreaqqq: i just woke up...yesterday i was busy..
Marie Calda: ok good morning to you.
eritreaqqq: im not sure where cavite is..is it near manila?
Marie Calda: yes it is 30mins by car.
Marie Calda: are you a japanese?
eritreaqqq: yes i am
Marie Calda: wow your very fluent in english huh..
Marie Calda: where did you study?
eritreaqqq: i learned by myself at university
Marie Calda: ok, you have a good brain .
eritreaqqq: thanks
Marie Calda: your welcome
eritreaqqq: do you have kids in previous marriage?
Marie Calda: no? i dont have kids and no bf right now
eritreaqqq: oh..i see
Marie Calda: do you want to see me
Marie Calda: i just woke up
eritreaqqq: do you have a cam?  is so.. please..
Marie Calda: yes i have but im shy cos i just woke up
eritreaqqq: ok...next time when you are ready to show..
Marie Calda: ok thank you for your kind understading
eritreaqqq: do you live with your parents?
Marie Calda: no. i live with my sister
eritreaqqq: i see..
eritreaqqq: i turned 50 this june..
Marie Calda: ok, age is doesnt matter to me
Marie Calda: have youbeen to philippines?
eritreaqqq: yes 17 years ago in manila
Marie Calda: oh that was a long time ago already.
eritreaqqq: yes
Marie Calda: do you have kids?
eritreaqqq: no kids...
eritreaqqq: im single anyway
Marie Calda: oh, really?
Marie Calda: why you are still single?
eritreaqqq: if i were married, i would have no time to have a chat on line with a woman....lol
Marie Calda: oh my GOD....
Marie Calda: so you just want to chat for the rest of your life?
eritreaqqq: chatting is a tool, not objective itself...
Marie Calda: ok i see
Marie Calda: are you at home now?
eritreaqqq: yes im in my room
Marie Calda: whos with you?
eritreaqqq: no i live alone
Marie Calda: ok, its not sad to be alone?
eritreaqqq: yes it is..i mean i feel great difficulty in living alone...thats why my room is very messy..i want someone to clean my room and wash my clothings
Marie Calda: ok, can i apply to work it for you?
eritreaqqq: you wanna come here?
Marie Calda: yes if you hire me
eritreaqqq: hire? 
Marie Calda: yes, hire for work.
eritreaqqq: you mean you wanna come here as maid
eritreaqqq: let me see
eritreaqqq: ive never tried thinking about it
Marie Calda: yes if you want my service , why not as long as i will have a salary
eritreaqqq: hiring maid is not general here in japan
Marie Calda: yes i know
eritreaqqq: both husband and wife work outside and do chores
Marie Calda: yes i  know that.
Marie Calda: i just say that cos you said your room is messy
eritreaqqq: are you working there?
Marie Calda: yes i have a japanesse boss here
Marie Calda: may i see it again
eritreaqqq: what?
eritreaqqq: is my cam disconnected?
Marie Calda: the one you show it on the cam the circle one whats that?
Marie Calda: no its not
Marie Calda: ok i saw it
Marie Calda: are you eating?
eritreaqqq: im eating candy
Marie Calda: ok i saw it already
Marie Calda: i will clean your room if you dont mind
eritreaqqq: japanese boss?  what job?
Marie Calda: enterpreter
eritreaqqq: please do so when you are here
Marie Calda: ok i will
eritreaqqq: oh i see...intelligent job
Marie Calda: yes just like you
eritreaqqq: you know what my job is?
Marie Calda: no not yet
eritreaqqq: guess
Marie Calda: tell me pls.
Marie Calda: what happened to you?
Marie Calda: the expretion of your face is not good
eritreaqqq: because its tangy...
Marie Calda: ok
eritreaqqq: im having kind of medicine
eritreaqqq: im teaching at college
Marie Calda: oh i see
Marie Calda: are you sick?
Marie Calda: pls. take care of yourself.
eritreaqqq: im healthy overall, but ive got a skin problem..so im having it  in order to change my body composition
Marie Calda: ok i see
Marie Calda: maybe you are alergy of some food
eritreaqqq: yes very much so...im very sensitive
Marie Calda: what university are you teaching? is it in tokyo or where in japan?
Marie Calda: oh i saw your alergy
Marie Calda: maybe thats an insect bite cos your room is messy right?
eritreaqqq: .i live in fukuoka, local city
Marie Calda: ok i see
eritreaqqq: 12 years ago i was bitten by giant jelly fish ...so theses are scares they made...
Marie Calda: thats a nice place but i've never been there to fukuoka.
eritreaqqq: yes..nice city
Marie Calda: OMG a monster jelly fish?
Marie Calda: so your suffering that already for too long?
eritreaqqq: it was very big
eritreaqqq: yes stings went deep inside my skin, then only recently ...from 6 months ago they started appearing on the surface...then
eritreaqqq: its very itchy
eritreaqqq: 12 years ago...unbelievable
Marie Calda: what did the doctor say? it will be cured soon?
eritreaqqq: symptoms calmed down soon, but never cured perfectly
Marie Calda: oh really?
Marie Calda: so you will take medicine for life?
eritreaqqq: so many years..yes
Marie Calda: oh im pity with you.
Marie Calda: do you have your parents still?
Marie Calda: how about brothers or sister?
eritreaqqq: many girls left here because of my parents
Marie Calda: why?
eritreaqqq: they are old and need care
Marie Calda: whos looking at them?
eritreaqqq: i
Marie Calda: you dont have broters or sisters?
eritreaqqq: many girls didnt like them so they are gone
eritreaqqq: one sister 48 yr still not married
eritreaqqq: you have to deal with two women if you come here
Marie Calda: oh GOD thats really hard if the situation is like that?
Marie Calda: why dont you hire a nurse for your parents?
eritreaqqq: are you off today?
Marie Calda: yes no work cos my boss is in japan right now. they;ll be back by the end of july
eritreaqqq: il be on line till noon philippine time..later il go out for work...give me ten minutes now
Marie Calda: ok pls take care
Marie Calda: and take your time
Marie Calda: just buzz me if you want to chat with me ok?
eritreaqqq: see you again in ten minutes
eritreaqqq: ok
Marie Calda: ok see you
eritreaqqq: did you learn japanase at college?
Marie Calda: no just a self study
Marie Calda: and i want to learn more
eritreaqqq: yeah
eritreaqqq: i worked ten hours yesterday...so i feel unwell now...still i need to work later though
Marie Calda: ok good luck to your work and take care with your body
eritreaqqq: see you again..keep in touch..
Marie Calda: ok i will
eritreaqqq: id like to take a short rest before going out
eritreaqqq: by for now
Marie Calda: ok pls take your time
eritreaqqq: nice to meet you
Marie Calda: nice meeting you too
Marie Calda: byeee......
Marie Calda:
eritreaqqq: nice to see your bathing suites..in tagged..bye!
Marie Calda: thakns byeee....
eritreaqqq: sorry i deleted yours in stead of someone else
eritreaqqq: please restore it till next time
eritreaqqq: please restore it when you are on line next time
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eritreaqqq: hi!
Marie Calda: hello how are you?
eritreaqqq: i came home now
Marie Calda: how's your work?
eritreaqqq: i have to go out at 7 again...its a break now
Marie Calda: ok take your time
Marie Calda: hi
eritreaqqq: yeah...did you go out today?
Marie Calda: yes for 20mins, cos i send money to my mother who is sick now
eritreaqqq: where does your mum live? province?
Marie Calda: yes in the prov. of visayas
eritreaqqq: island?
Marie Calda: yes its an island
Marie Calda: visayas island
Marie Calda: are you ok?
eritreaqqq: yeah im always very tired...
Marie Calda: yes look like that way
Marie Calda: why?
eritreaqqq: all works and no relax
Marie Calda: oh my GOD
Marie Calda: pls relax your body
Marie Calda: go to the massage parlor
Marie Calda: to take some massage
eritreaqqq: ive never been there..my situation is very serious
Marie Calda: why? what kind of situation?
eritreaqqq: i mean...i need someone who help me in my life, yet no one is beside me....thats it
Marie Calda: ok i understand
Marie Calda: why not marry again?
eritreaqqq: im looking for it now..i think i will marry again soon..
Marie Calda: ok, do you have a gf now?
eritreaqqq: no..thats why i feel very much trouble everyday..
Marie Calda: ok
eritreaqqq: but i know i need a real woman soon
Marie Calda: yes i understand you
eritreaqqq: when did you separate from your last bf?
Marie Calda: a year ago
eritreaqqq: similar to me..
Marie Calda: oh really
eritreaqqq: i got divorced in last june..
Marie Calda: just this year?
eritreaqqq: since then my life became upside down
Marie Calda: why?
eritreaqqq: sorry in june last year
eritreaqqq: ive been looking for a girl but only in vain so far
Marie Calda: why its in vain?
eritreaqqq: so far i havent found it
Marie Calda: i see
eritreaqqq: i like a filipina, but they live far away...almost all filipina who live near my room are married to japanese..you see?
Marie Calda: ok i understand
Marie Calda: do you have a filipine gf before?
eritreaqqq: yes
Marie Calda: then what happened?
eritreaqqq: 17 years ago
eritreaqqq: separated...thats it
Marie Calda: ok how long you've been together?
eritreaqqq: nearly two years
eritreaqqq: both here in japan and in the philippines
Marie Calda: why you broke up
Marie Calda: i mean separate her
eritreaqqq: i introduced her to my parents then they didnt like her to live with me and my parents
Marie Calda: why?
Marie Calda: she didnt likto live?
eritreaqqq: she wanted to, but my parents rejected
Marie Calda: oh ok.
Marie Calda: so your parents dont like a filipina?
Marie Calda: why?
eritreaqqq: not only filipina but any women
eritreaqqq: so im single now
Marie Calda: why they dont like? they dont like you to get married?
Marie Calda: how old is your parents now?
eritreaqqq: 74
Marie Calda: your mother and father are both alive?
eritreaqqq: yes both are 74
Marie Calda: why they dont want you to get marry?
eritreaqqq: i want to that reason
eritreaqqq: want to know
Marie Calda: yes t want to know
eritreaqqq: i wan to know that too...
eritreaqqq: i mean i dont know
Marie Calda: OMG its very hard for no reason why? maybe if im in your situation i get mad of it
eritreaqqq: im mad at it now
Marie Calda: you really kawaiso
eritreaqqq: right
Marie Calda: so, if you will get married by this time what will you do?
eritreaqqq: id like to live with my girlfriend in her appartment
Marie Calda: ok thats a good idea
eritreaqqq: i plan to do that, but i need to find a right one first
Marie Calda: maybe if you will be separated from your parents they will realise about your situation.
eritreaqqq: i hope so
Marie Calda: yes thats the only solution to that , to be apart from them
Marie Calda: for awhile
eritreaqqq: yes
eritreaqqq: do you have a cam?
Marie Calda: yes pls wait if you want to see me, i will fix it first
eritreaqqq: ok
Marie Calda: ok can you see me now?
Marie Calda: can you see
eritreaqqq: no i see the same image as mine
Marie Calda: ok you turn off your cam first, then i will open mine
Marie Calda: ok can you see me now?
eritreaqqq: i ve gotta leave now...il be home again at 11 pm philippine time...
eritreaqqq: yes i see you now
Marie Calda: ok take care
eritreaqqq: see you again..you wear glasses
Marie Calda: yes , ok see you
Marie Calda: hi
eritreaqqq: sorry ive gotta leave again..
Marie Calda: dok take care
Last message received on 04/07 at 20:00