When it comes to choosing a lifelong partner, one often faces a classic dilemma: the faithful, traditional woman versus the captivating, untraditional one.
What are the realistic chances that a free-spirited woman will actually settle down after marriage?
I am currently dating both types. The traditional woman wants to wait until marriage, so our relationship remains strictly platonic. I feel a deep attraction to her modesty, and I believe the joy of crossing that line only after marriage would be profoundly rewarding.
However, she recently mentioned that she expects me to buy her a house before we get married. I sometimes wonder if she only brought this up because she assumes I would never actually go that far, perhaps using it as a gentle way to keep me at a distance.
Every date leaves me with a sense of frustration, and because we lack physical intimacy, we haven’t grown close enough to discuss concrete plans for the future.
Everything remains a hypothetical "if."
Meanwhile, the free-spirited woman is completely open about dating multiple men, including me. With her, my desires are always fulfilled.
Yet, I constantly wonder if I truly hold a special place in her heart. I find myself thinking about marriage because I feel she will never truly be mine unless we are wed.
Although she has already tried to break up with me twice, I refused to let her go. No matter how many times she tries to break up with me, I will never give up on her. I am determined to hold on to our relationship, no matter what.
Paradoxically, I believe this free-spirited woman is showing me her authentic self, making her seem like the more sincere of the two.
Furthermore, I believe that if biological instinct results in a child, marriage must follow. From this perspective, marrying the partner with whom I am already intimate feels like the only viable path.
I genuinely care for both of them, and I often wish they could just fuse into one perfect person. While the traditional woman is virtuous, she may be losing ground because our connection cannot progress. Ultimately, the choice is mine, but navigating this ultimate dilemma is far from easy.
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